Teddy Bear

Teddy Bear
If Teddy Bears could talk.

Sunday, September 15, 2013

Outlook!

As the saying goes "Every Sunrise is a New Beginning."

Is it really a new beginning for us though? Not if you choose to purchase things on credit. If you live like most of today's society every day is more interest added to your debt. It's easy to lose sight of how expensive buying things on credit truly is. Rent to own will typically cost you double the price of the item if bought for cash, same goes for credit cards, as well as auto loans...  Mortgages aren't quite as bad and truly are a necessity if we wish to build equity in possessions but I'll get back to rent versus buy in a moment. 

Every time you start working you are adding value to the company you work for, you never get back the same value that you put in, If you did the company would go out of business. So it is an investment in tomorrow, you know if the company prospers and you are a positive contributor you will still have a job tomorrow. You accept that in return for not having to bother with business taxes and insurance, and legal liabilities... The list is rather lengthy in reasons for making the company more money than you get paid. Even owners will invest more time and energy than they profit in the beginning stages of any business in the hopes that the business will become self-sustaining and they will then get a larger return than what they invested. In today's economy that is just a bit more likely than walking out of a casino with more money than you walked in with. Sad reality but it's true.

Now back to Homes, buy versus rent...  Once again you are gambling if you purchase a house in today's market most first time home buyers don’t realize what they are getting into. When you buy a home it isn't just a place to live you have purchased. Even though you are still paying for it you are fully responsible for anything that breaks down, any damages that occur, liability of others on your property, taxes, insurance, maintenance, in some cases HOA fees, and a list of other un-thought of costs. 
You will be there for many years to come even though you own it do you really own it? Try not paying the taxes on it and you realize that you don’t own it you are renting it from the Government. They will take it away from you if you don’t pay the tax. When it comes to a car it is close to the same issue with the exception they won’t come and take it if you don’t pay taxes on it they will just fine you heavily until you comply or no longer drive it.

The opposite side of the coin is renting a house or apartment. When you rent you only pay rent, and to repair damages you cause. Normal wear and use is the owner’s responsibility, if an appliance or furnace / central air or anything else goes out the owner gets to pay for it, in a house you will probably be supplying your own appliances and doing the yard maintenance but that is typically all you have to worry about. The down side to this is you will never build equity in the property. For a lot of people thy feel it is worth it to avoid the annoyances of owning.

So as you see it’s not really a new beginning as much as a new chance to make things right. Every new dawn brings with it a chance for you to make a difference in your life as well as the lives around you. Don’t waste those chances by doing nothing. I choose to try and improve others’ lives by sharing love compassion and encouragement. I make many mistakes and I will continue to make many more, for that I will apologize to those that my mistakes effect. However at the end of the day if I can honestly say I have made more people happy than my mistakes have upset or harmed than it was a successful day and I look forward to the new dawn with anticipation. If today I failed and hurt more than I helped I ask for the next dawn to allow me to renew my efforts.

Thank you for your time, may all of your new dawns be blessed with love and compassion from you and to you.

Sean “Teddy Bear” Sullivan


Saturday, September 14, 2013

Just musings...



Ever wonder why....


Is it ok for men to go topless but not women?
Is it when a woman is caught naked she will cover her chest but not groin?
Is it women are fine wearing a bikini but if you catch them in their bra and panties they scream and cover up?
Is it a girl will say she wants the sweet guy that will treat her like a princess and then tell him she loves him like a brother as she goes out with a jerk?
Is it after the brother speech girls are surprised if the good guy isn't sitting there waiting on her to change her mind when the jerk screws her over? 
Is it that sometimes the idiot is still sitting there waiting just in case she changes her mind even though it breaks his heart every time she goes out with someone else?
Is it more acceptable to be gay than it is to be fat?
Is it ok for a guy to sleep around but when a girl does it she called a tramp or worse?
Is it we allow so many double standards in our society?
Is it more times than not when you help someone get ahead they forget about the people that helped them get there and where they came from?
Is it the ones that say no drama are involved in the most drama?


Just some Saturday musings for everyone to think about. Feel free to answer any or all. What is your opinion on why?

Friday, September 13, 2013

Wife and Mother Appreciation

Immediate Opening, References and prior experience not required. Please PM photos and letter of qualification. I will double the previous persons salary and room and board are provided as living on the premises is mandatory. 

Hours are flexible as long as you are available 24x7. 


Job responsibilities are as follows: Cooking, Cleaning, Laundry  Taxi Service, Book Keeper, Counselor, Warden, Nurse, Referee, Teacher, Coach, Labor Supervisor and QA inspector. If extra proficient at last 2 cooking and cleaning, and laundry are not needed. Work force is 3 laborers and a Manager that let's you run the show.

Pay may not be much monetarily but is still the greatest treasure on Earth! Unlimited Love and Aggravation!!

If you have a house wife that takes care of you and makes you life a luxury don't take it for granted. And anyone that thinks being a Wife and Mother of 3 is not more than a full time job the read the previously mentioned job duties and realize these are just the tip of the iceberg....

Teddy Bear



I was once a new fluffy Teddy Bear, I was full of hugs and ready to protect you throughout the night and always be there waiting for you when you came home. 
As time went on I ended up on a shelf instead of the bed but I still watched over you as you slept and waited for you to come home. 
Then I ended up in a box in closet, but I was still there when you were looking for something and you would take me out and hug me, sometimes smiling and laughing and others crying.
I never cared why you pulled me out I was just happy to be there for you.
Now many years have passed and you still keep me in that old box I haven’t been out of it in a very long time. I’m missing some of my fur and have patched and scars from being mended but I am still waiting and watching over you.

Everyone needs a Teddy Bear...

Love is Not Enough

Love is not enough. It is necessary but still not enough. There must be compromise and friendship, trust and happiness. If any of these is not in the mix than it is just a place holder until the right relationship comes along.

Not everyone you love will be more than a friend. But if you find someone that meets all of these hold them close even if they are just your best friend because the journey of life is much better when you have help along the way. And those that are true friends know you need help and give it before you can ask.

Spread love and compassion.

All sides to any given situation.

Truth and righteousness confrontations and wars are so subjective neither can be believed without question. 

In every situation there can be many sides to a story. In a 2 person confrontation there are 3 sides to the situation, person a's, person b's, and reality...

For righteousness you have to take into account that the group that wins is the one to right the story. Take the American Declaration of Independence, to Americans the declaration was righteous however to England it was unjust that the colonists wanted to break away from England. 

So remember before jumping to conclusion or accepting things at face value do a bit of research and see if you can find the reality.

September is ITP awareness month

Idiopathic thrombocytopenic purpura
ITP for short. 
Idiopathic thrombocytopenic purpura is a bleeding disorder in which the immune system destroys platelets, which are necessary for normal blood clotting. Persons with the disease have too few platelets in the blood.

September is ITP awareness month so help spread the word. Alicia is a dear friend of mine and her adorable daughter suffers from ITP. 


Keep them in your prayers and hearts!!